A quick and easy way to understand your spouse using Zi Wei Dou Shu
One major issue with marriage these days is that couples do not understand each other enough. Too often, we discover that boyfriends or girlfriends do not behave the same after marriage. Is it because of a sudden change in personality or that everyone ’s perception of their spouses is different?To be honest, I believe that a person do not change over night that easily. It is the perception and expectation that one holds that creates the impression that the spouse is behaving differently after marriage.
It is then important to first understand how your future husband or wife will behave before tieing the marriage knot. We are blessed that our ancestors have considered this issue when they invented Zi Wei Dou Shu astrology. Zi Wei astrology can be considered as a specialised astrology/statistical tool that is capable of analysing one’s characteristics accurately. For those who have experienced the sophistication of this system will understand what I am saying. Those of you looking for a partner may also use Zi Wei Dou Shu to assess the suitablility of their suitors.
Now, I would like to share with you an easy way to read off your spouse ’s character and traits off a Zi Wei Dou Shu chart. However, do be reminded that this is only a generalised method for beginners.
Check your spouse palace (opposite Career palace) for the major stars. Having a Zi Wei star would most likely imply that you will have a spouse who is attracted to lavish lifestyle. If Zi Wei star meets Tian Xiang, it will also indicate that the spouse has an attractive appearance. Having a Tian Ji star in spouse house will mean that your spouse will like to engage in intellectual discussion with you. But do beware that there will be frequent arguements with your spouse if you are not careful. This is especially the case if there is also a Ju Men star beside it.
For those of you who are interested in getting a good looking spouses, then having either a Tan Lang or Tai Yin star might indicate so. However, do beware that you will need to place more attention with your spouse as Tan Lang also indicate that the husband /wife is more sociable and attractive to other people. This is extremely so with a Lian Zhen star beside Tan Lang as both stars are more out going in nature.
More aggresive stars like Qi Sha and Po Jun will tend to imply that the spouse is more focused on other areas such as career and may nelegect the marriage. Often, they will tend to be more ambitious and seek fulfillment in achieving higher social status.
What I have listed is only a general way to assess one’s spouse. To obtain a better analysis, it is better for you to seek the help of a practitioner.
3 Responses to “A quick and easy way to understand your spouse using Zi Wei Dou Shu”
June 23rd, 2009 at %1:%Jun %p
This is a very interesting post. Where can I find a site that calculates these signs?
July 6th, 2009 at %1:%Jul %p
interesting! i will try it! i hope that in the future you will develop a tool for this on the site
December 7th, 2009 at %0:%Dec %p
You covered most of the stars but I’d like to know what if I have Tian Fu, Wen Qu and Hong Luan stars in my spouse house? Does it mean anything?
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