Some of you may think it is no big deal given that there are some write ups in the market on what are the tell-tale signs in a Bazi or ZWDS chart of a gay.  However, having research extensively these writeups in the market, I remain convinced the authors of these writeups made little headway in the technique of determining a gay Bazi or ZWDS chart.  The reason for my saying so is because they use very general rules like “overly Yang or overly Yin Bazi” or “Yang star in the Self Palace of a female ZWDS chart or Yin star in the Self Palace of a male ZWDS chart.  This is like the chef proclaiming he can whip up a dish of Indian curry because he can best describe the dish as spicy – the fundamental description is right but vague and does nothing to suggest the efficacy of the sayer.

Bazi and ZWDS originated from ancient China whereby homosexuality does not exist or is not known to exist.  Naturally, there are no classical text from the forefathers of Bazi and ZWDS that touch on determining homsexuality from their respective astrological charts.  However, the principles of these arts are applicable in the modern society as well.  What is required, is for a practitioner of these arts that are able to apply the principles of these 2 arts in the modern context by thorougly understanding the principles behind rather than by memorizing classical texts of these arts by hard.

There are some Bazi and ZWDS practitioners that staunchly takes the view that being gay is an acquired lifestyle because in the Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu clearly divides the line between Yin and Yang and therefore gay-ism (whereby Yin and Yang are mixed) does not conform to the laws of nature.  Likewise the staunchest of followers of religion will also take the stand that homosexuality is not inborn because their gods will not have in their blueprint, gays that are neither end of the sexuality spectrum.

For those that are practising Bazi or ZWDS and takes the view that gay-ism is an acquired lifestyle (because Yin and Yang are distinct) can do better with understanding the classical phrase in our study of “in every Yin there is Yang, in every Yang, there is Yin).  If homosexuality is not inborn, we will never be able to determine it from the astrological (ie Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu) charts of gays.  Having analysed the astrological charts of many celebrity and non-celebrity gays, I am convinced that my self-developed methods of determining gay-ism from the astrological charts are accurate.

“One thing about me you gotta understand; it is hard for me to congratulate somebody after just losing to him……I’m a winner. That’s not being a poor sport or anything like that. If somebody beats you up, you are not going to congratulate them [for] beating you up. That doesn’t make sense to me, I’m a competitor and that is what I do. It doesn’t make sense to me to go over and shake somebody’s hand.”

This was the reply given by a high profile sportsman when he was accused by the media of being a sore loser after he refused to shake the hands of nor congratulate players from the opponent’s team after his team lost and made an exit of a competition.  Neither did he attend the customary post- match press conference nor allow interviews with reporters.

When has being competitive become an acceptable reason for being less gracious?  I would hope people with highly competitive streak take one step backward and examine if they have been ungracious and unbecoming in their quest to becoming the best in their field.  Highly competitive sportsperson should realize eventually there is more to this world than just winning or being crowned the best. 

Given the age of this player, I believe this is probably an act of immaturity and that he will learn the art of being more graceful as he gets older.  That’s the reason I would not be too critical of such a young person.  Everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life.  To live and let live makes this world a much better place to live in.

The most fundamental concept in Chinese Metaphysics towards better outcomes lies in the balance of Yin and Yang.  When someone does something offensive (Yang), the best way to handle it is to forgive and accept (Yin).  However, what we see common in this world today is many would have counter the offensive with another offensive ie fighting Yang with Yang which eventually leaves both parties poorer off.

The Yin Yang principle is the preeminent ancient Chinese secret offering explanation to everything that exists, changes or moves. Its origin comes from observing the very essence of the Universe – from darkness there is light.

Yin Yang theory embodies the fine aspect of duality.  Understanding Yin & Yang is in fact the key to unlocking the finer aspects of Chinese Metaphysics studies.  Differentiation of Yin & Yang can be presented as below:

Yin               Yang
Female         Male
Darkness     Brightness
Stillness       Movement
Mountain     Water

Because we can see darkness and we can see light, they appear to be separated yet they are connected in every possible way. It is this connective quality that Yin Yang theory is all about. However, manyy people will try to identify Yin and Yang as separate and to judge which one you relate to or prefer over the other. This is a wrong mentality!

 This  tendency prevents us from accessing the power of the Chinese principle. So to harness the power of Yin Yang, we must embrace both Yin and Yang and observe without judgment.

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